When I lived in Lake Havasu City there was a man by the name of Ron Carroll. He and his wife Amy were a Paramedic and EMT at River Medical and attend worship where I was the associate pastor. Ron never came to communion and I finally found out why. He was not baptized.
So Ron and I talked one day at their kitchen table. He knew the rules–communion is for the baptized. He was interested in Baptism but wasn’t clear on all the theology. We discussed his questions and after some reflection and prayer we scheduled a baptism.
My pastoral relationship began with Ron over the sacrament of communion. Communion for Lutherans is where we experience the presence of Christ in, with, and under the bread and wine/grape juice.
Ron recently died after a long battle with cancer. Over the last I don’t remember how long I wore an orange bracelet as many in our community of Lake Havasu did to show we were “Fighting with Ron.” Mine had faded to yellow from too many miles under the desert sun on the Burgman. Even after I left Lake Havasu City for Chehalis, I still wore my bracelet.
Ron died on a Wednesday. On the following Sunday I took the bracelet off for the first time. It just felt right to have that bracelet there on the communion table as I presided at Christ’s table with the people of St John’s in Chehalis. As communion is a foretaste of the great banquet we will all experience with Jesus in eternity, it was fitting that the symbol of my relationship with Ron was part of the furniture of the congregation’s celebration.
Ron’s baptism was a special moment for me as a pastor, standing with his wife and sons as he confessed his faith and entered into the Body of Christ. Ron in his lifetime touched many lives but it was Christ’s loving embrace that kept him through the long days and nights of his cancer fight.
It is that grace and love of Jesus Christ that I commend Ron to now. He has run the race and as a child of God he is safe in the arms of his savior. One day we will be reunited at the victory banquet of Jesus Christ. This yellowed bracelet is a reminder that death has no victory over us. Death has been swallowed up in the victory of Jesus Christ and his resurrection.
John 14: 1-3 “Do not let your hearts be troubled. Believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father’s house there are many dwelling places. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, so that where I am, there you may be also.”